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Tuesday, March 21, 2006

Passion Parties

Can you imagine a room filled with over 1000 passionate and powerful women from all across the United States and Canada just waiting to be educated and entertained by yours truly? On Friday March 10th Passion Parties® held their annual conference for their Passion Consultants™ at the Las Vegas Riviera Hotel. After a shining introduction by the President, Pat Davis, I congratulated my audience for taking charge of their lives and enabling women everywhere to have positive and healthy sex attitudes with the help of Passion Parties® products. Since they sell enhancement products at home parties to an expansive group of women ranging from 18 to 80, I shared some of the physical, sexual and psychological changes and needs that women go through as they mature and how they can get the most benefit from Passion Parties® line of products.

I shared the fact that the earlier a woman learns self awareness; to accept and love her body, the healthier and happier she will be sexually. Consequently, by the time she reaches menopause, there is no reason why she shouldn’t continue to have a healthy and active sex life.
Satisfaction with one's sexual relationship is the most important part of sexual health. There are three attitudes that distinguish people who are satisfied from those who are not, these are:

1. Accepting your own sexuality just the way it is.
2. Listening and acknowledging your partner’s sexual likes and dislikes.
3. Being open to trying new things that can heighten a romantic or sexual experience for you.

Both men and women experience changes in their sexual experiences over the course of their lifetime because we continually grow mentally, physically, emotionally and sexually. As Passion Consultants™, these women can make a difference by helping to improve the quality of other women’s love lives.
Passion Parties, Inc. offers women the opportunity to own and manage their own business, while promoting sexual awareness and well-being. Their direct-selling business model provides generous rewards and recognition for their independent Passion Consultants™. For more information go to www.passionparties.com




Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Sex Consent

In response to an article on http://edition.cnn.com/2006/WORLD/europe/03/14/uk.rape.reut/index.html
Headline:
LONDON, England -- Men must make sure they gain consent before having sex to avoid being sent to jail, the British government is to say in a hard-hitting advertising campaign being launched on Tuesday.
My response is this is: I wholeheartedly agree so use a Sexual Consent Form like this one that I created:


Sexual Consent Form & Right of Privacy Agreement

I, _______________________, hereby declare under penalty of
perjury that I am over 18 years old.

I further declare that this agreement is of my own free will and that neither I nor anyone near or dear to me has been threatened with harm or embarrassment.

Both parties agree that this is a private agreement not to be disclosed to third parties except in case of accusation of sexual misconduct by (name) ________________________ of (state)___________________. If he/she shows or makes public this agreement without accusation of sexual misconduct, it is agreed that he/she will be liable for damages for invasion of privacy, whether or not his/her signature appears herein.

By initialing __________________, agrees to engage in all or some of the following consensual acts. Check boxes below and initial the following.

Sexual fondling, petting and kissing________
Sexual intercourse________
Oral copulation (mutual)________
Unilateral copulation by________only.

Other, to be specified: ___________________________________________________________________

I further declare that I am at this time not under the influence of alcohol, drugs or medication and agree to engage in consensual sex with____________________________ and intend not to change my mind before the sex act is over. However, it is further understood that if I, for any reason say the words “Code Red,” that my partner agrees to stop instantly.

Signed:_________________________Signed:__________________________

Date:___________________________Date:____________________________

You may also want to check with your attorney before entering into any agreement.


Superstar athletes, actors, rock stars, politicians, even entrepreneurs have groupies who will do just about anything to have sex with them, but can the groupies be trusted? Will they later lie about the act being consensual? Could they threaten to sue, or worse still, make an accusation about sexual assault? You bet they could! So how can these well-known people who are regularly out of town and away from home - which can lead to loneliness and result in temptation - protect themselves? Condoms can protect from STD’s and unwanted pregnancy, but another form of protection is to have a sexual consent form signed before having any sex, as I described on TV’s Celebrity Justice, CNN, ABC, Fox News and Good Morning America programs. If you think that a sexual consent form is only for the rich and famous, think again. Even if you have no liquid assets, you still need to protect yourself from false accusations because you could lose everything, including personal property, freedom and reputation. There are many other benefits too, to signing a sexual consent form, including the fact that you literally open up a form of intimate communication prior to rushing into sex. And ladies, the sexual consent form can protect you too, from being taken advantage of sexually because there is an “out clause” that stipulates that if you say the words “Code Red,” your partner must stop immediately. I chose this phrase because the words “No” and “Stop” have been used all too frivolously in our society, and unfortunately, they are not always taken seriously. By using the sexual consent form with an FDA approved condom, you could protect yourself legally and sexually.




Friday, March 10, 2006

Night of 100 Stars

This year I went to The Night of 100 Stars at the Beverly Hills Hotel. I walked the red carpet with the Hollywood crowd and was dazzled by hundreds of paparazzi on Sunday night at the 16th annual “Night of 100 Stars” Oscar viewing party. This charity event was hosted by Hollywood super-agent Norby Walters, who annually attracts some of the hottest stars from the past and present, including many former Academy Award winners. Among the rich and famous were Lou Diamond Phillips, Ernest Borgnine, Ed Asner, Traci Bingham, Julie Brown, Wink Martindale, Alan Thicke, John Schneider, Anthony Michael Hall, Dick Van Patten, Warren Moon, Lance Bass, Amber Smith and many more.

I watched the Academy Awards on a big screen, but was constantly distracted by rowdy cheers and applause from fellow actors jumping up and down every time somebody won an Oscar. Admittedly, it would have been more comfortable watching the Oscars at home where I could have curled up on my coach and kicked off my uncomfortable high heels, but there’s something to be said for getting all caught up in the energy of the Hollywood atmosphere.

My favorite moment was when Crash won for best picture. This movie was a powerful thought-provoking film that filled me with emotion. My biggest disappointment was when Philip Seymour Hoffman didn’t bark his acceptance speech, as he promised he would on the David Letterman show.

In case you missed the big winners, here are the 78th Annual Oscar winners:

Best Picture
Crash

Best Actor
Philip Seymour Hoffman in Capote


Best Actress
Reese Witherspoon in Walk the Line

Best Supporting Actor
George Clooney in Syriana

Best Supporting Actress
Rachel Weisz in The Constant Gardener

Best Director
Ang Lee for Brokeback Mountain




Thursday, March 02, 2006

Apprentice Winner

As you can imagine it wasn’t easy for me to select my apprentice from such a wonderful group of applicants. They all had unique qualities and any one of them could have worked for me.

After careful consideration and much deliberation, I have selected someone that best suits my specific needs. Unfortunately, I could only select one person at this time, so I had to send out rejection letters to everyone else.

I believe that everything in life is a learning experience and everyone we meet, no matter how briefly impacts our lives and I hope that I’ve impacted the apprentice applicants’ lives positively. They have certainly left me with some lasting memories.

I chose the winner for her positive energy and genuine enthusiasm, her dynamic personality, intelligence, healthy outlook on sexuality and uninhibited persona. She just celebrated her 22nd birthday on February 26th. She is currently working on her B.A. in psychology from Cal State Northridge, has good computer skills and wants to be a sex therapist. I’m happy to announce that the winner of my Apprentice Search is Miss Hilary Buckelew.