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Sunday, February 19, 2006

Love Lessons

The Mark & Brian Show of KLOS 95.5 FM put out a nationwide search for singles who deemed themselves ready for marriage. The radio reality show dubbed “Two Strangers and a Wedding”, began when the radio station picked 5 potential brides and 5 potential grooms. What was at stake? An all expense paid wedding; rings, reception, gifts, and honeymoon, you name it! The catch (and, it’s a pretty big catch), the prospective winners, a bride and groom, will see each other for the first time on their wedding day. A true “nice to meet you” at the altar wedding! The ten vying contestants were strapped to a lie detector and asked a series of questions by - guess who? Me! The experience was fantastic! It was incredible fun, and I found the process so fulfilling that I just had to share some of the value of it with you all.

As the radio station’s resident Loveologist, I was able ask some very personal questions. Not being one to shy away, I dived right in, full steam ahead! and why not? After all, it’s “Two Strangers and a Wedding”, not “Two Strangers and A Funeral.” I strongly recommend anyone planning on getting married, to ask their significant other the same frank questions before tying the knot. Getting answers to these most intimate questions may save you a lot of heartache. Let’s face it; sex and intimacy are a big part of marriage, which is why I’m giving you the opportunity to ask yourself and your lover, some provocative questions so that you can discuss any potential problems before they occur. Sit down somewhere comfy, with a candle and a fine glass of wine, look each other in the eyes, be honest and fearless, and go for it!

Questions for Men:

1. What is the worse thing a woman could do or say to you? For example: Accuse you of something. Hit you. Hold back sex, etc.,
2. Which role-playing fantasy would turn you on the most? Master and slave. Biker and slut. Nurse and patient. Teacher and student. Hooker and John.
3. What is your most precious possession?
4. Do you approve or disapprove of learning different sexual techniques from experts who author books or DVD’s?
5. List the best qualities you have to bring to a relationship.
6. Name three of the most significant times in your life.
7. Do you think you need to make any personal improvements in yourself? If so, what?
8. What are your biggest fears about marriage?
9. What is one life lesson you would like to share with your partner?
10. What is your definition of intimacy?
11. What would you do if you and your wife had mismatched sex drives?
12. What is your definition of a romantic evening?
13. What questions could you ask her to get to know her more intimately?
14. Describe yourself in one word?
15. Who or what do you love the most?
16. What do you feel is the biggest success you have achieved in your life?
17. How many times have you been in love?
18. Would you rather your wife was funny, seductive, smart or nurturing?
19. How would you like your wife to dress in order to light your fire?
20. How would you get her in the mood for lovemaking?
21. When do you feel most vulnerable?
22. What lessons have you learned from past relationships?
23. What is a relationship deal-breaker for you?
24. Do you like a woman to talk erotically in bed?
25. What was your most embarrassing relationship moment?
26. Name three women that you admire and why.
27. What is your favorite part of your own body, and why?
28. How do you think women perceive you at first glance?
29. What is your favorite sexual activity, and why?
30. What makes you believe that you are ready for marriage?
31. What single word would you use to describe your sexual personality?
32. Would you say that you are a good lover, an average lover, or a below average lover, and what would it take to make you a great lover?
33. What turns you off sexually, and why?
34. Is there any sexual act that you will not perform, and why?
35. What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
36. What’s the most hurtful criticism you’ve ever received?
37. List three things that women do or say that annoy you
38. Are you fanatical about anything?
39. Do you have a pet name for any intimate part of your body?
40. What do you feel has been the biggest failure or drawback you have ever experienced?
41. Can you overlook indiscretions from your future wife’s past?
42. Do you have any deal-breakers that would prevent you from getting married?
43. Do you have any sexual inhibitions?
44. What is the wildest sexual encounter you have personally experienced?
45. Where does sex rank in life’s priorities for you?
46. What are your biggest strengths?
47. What are your weaknesses?
48. Have you ever regretted being intimate with someone? If so, why?
49. Finish this sentence: “I wish women would…”
50. How would you feel about your wife going topless on the Riviera?
51. How would you feel about having a three-way with your wife?
52. Name three sexual activities that turn you on the most.
53. What do you love most about a woman
54. What do you love most about yourself?
55. What are you not willing to change for your marriage?
56. What do you think are the benefits of being married?
57. What is your favorite part of the female body, and why?
58. Would you partake in a nude Jacuzzi with other couples in a resort where clothing is optional?
59. How often would you like to have sex?
60. What sexual fantasies do you still have that you’d like to turn into reality?


Questions for Women:

1. How would you describe yourself in one word?
2. What qualities are you looking for in a husband?
3. What unique qualities do you have to bring to a relationship?
4. Prioritize what is most important in your life; work, family, spirituality, friends, money, health?
5. What is your definition of love, intimacy, and sex?
6. What is a relationship deal-breaker for you?
7. Finish this sentence: "I wish men would..."
8. What would you like to improve about yourself?
9. How often would you like to have sex?
10. What have you learned from your past relationships?
11. How do you think men perceive you on first impression?
12. Would you rather your husband be rich, handsome, sexy, funny or intelligent?
13. Describe the best sexual experience you’ve ever had.
14. Who do you still need to forgive in your past, and why?
15. What is one life lesson you would like to share with your husband?
16. What one word would you use to describe your sexual personality?
17. What did you dislike most about your childhood?
18. If your past boyfriends listed your most negative characteristics, what would they be?
19. What was your most embarrassing moment ever?
20. At what point in a marriage do you feel divorce is inevitable?
21. What gift would you like your husband to give you on your wedding night?
22. What are you sexually inhibited about?
23. What makes you feel sexy?
24. What is your favorite part of the male body, and why?
25. What is your favorite part of your, body and why?
26. How do you like to be romanced?
27. How long would you like lovemaking to last?
28. If you didn’t have an orgasm, would you say so or fake it?
29. What do you like to be called during lovemaking?
30. How important is foreplay to you?
31. Where is the place to touch you that turns you on the most?
32. What turns you off sexually, and why?
33. How would impotence affect your relationship?
34. Have you had any sexual problems with any previous lover?
35. What changes do you expect to occur in your life after you are married?
36. What if you and your husband can’t agree on having children?
37. What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
38. What is your greatest possession and why?
39. Who or what do you love the most?
40. If your husband wanted to see one of his ex-lovers socially, would you object?
41. What sexual fantasies do you still have that you’d like to turn into reality?
42. List three things that men do or say that annoy you.
43. List three lessons that you’ve learned from past relationships.
44. What do you love most about yourself?
45. What fears do you have about marriage?
46. What has been your greatest accomplishment?
47. What has been your biggest failure?
48. What animal would best describe you in bed, and why?
49. Do you have a pet name for any intimate part of your body?
50. Would you do a striptease for your lover if he asked you to?
51. Would you have sex with your lover even if you weren’t in the mood?
52. Would you let your lover tie you up or would you want to tie him up?
53. Do you like to use sex toys? If so, which ones?
54. In order of priority what sex act do you enjoy the most: giving oral sex, receiving oral sex, or intercourse?
55. Do you like to talk erotically in bed?
56. What is your favorite sexual position and why?
57. How do you feel about spanking?
58. Do you enjoy sexual role-playing? If so, what role turns you on the most?
59. What is the wildest sex act you’ve ever done?
60. What would turn you off from wanting to have sex with your husband?

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1 Comments:

Anonymous Lisa said...

Two Stangers and a wedding, WOW that was some great radio. I particulary enjoyed hearing Dr.Eva on the interviews. Great questions!

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